
The doctor's appointment was going so well. My sons were perfectly behaved, and having such a fun time taking turns getting measured. It was his 4-year appointment, so Xander even got his hearing tested and blood pressure taken. Will was right at his side saying, "My turn, my turn." Xander got a vision test, and Will was standing right to his side, covering one eye, and saying random letters and shapes, just like he thought Xander was. I thought it was a pity that I hadn't brought my camera to document such a great time.
In the past, it hasn't been too bad... well, nothing that candy couldn't fix a few seconds later at least. This time I decided to have Will go first (he needed 2) and Xander go next (he needed 5). William's shots weren't too bad (it's never fun- but I had a purse full of candy, and he quickly forgot). Then, Xander was up. I had already told him about the importance of shots, and how they help us to not get sick later. He had shots a year ago, but I wasn't sure if he could remember. I sat him on the table, and was trying to decide if I should just catch him unexpected, or prepare him mentally for it. I decided I'd prepare him, so that he didn't feel betrayed by me, so I said, "Xander this is really going to hurt, but just for a second and then it will be over."
Remember those words, and never use them on your own kid- because it caused him to start panicking and screaming immediately. The nurse instructed me to hold his top half down, while he held down the lower half, all the while Xander was crying and screaming his head off and trying to get away. I immediately wanted to laugh from the scene that he was making, and cry at the same time because he sounded like he was being tortured! I mainly just had to stay calm myself, and talk him through it. Will started crying, from being so scared from Xander's reaction.
Finally it was over and I placed Xander in a chair, where he curled up in a ball. I apologized to the nurse again and again that I'd told Xander it was going to hurt, but I didn't want to make eye contact, because I had tears in my eyes. The nurse left and I thought it might be good to talk with Xander. "So did it feel like a pinch, or a bee sting?" I asked.
Still whimpering, and with a sad little voice, he said, "It felt like monster bites."